Kittens that Bite - Can You Stop it!
by Jilly Greene
I've got a
really soft spot for cats and dogs. And
usually I don't worry too much about
their unsociable aspects like hole
digging and biting and scratching,
especially if they are outside animals
and working dogs.
But once
you allow an animal to live inside your
personal space, whether it is in the
house or just in the yard - and if you
have young children, the animal must
learn to live by the rules of household
living.
The cat
when older does not miss being able to
bite its owners and its life is going to
be a lot more pleasant when it is an
animal that can be trusted around
family.
We have
had to deal with cats which have come
from varied backgrounds. Often they are
very bitey when little and if this
tendency is not curbed as a young animal
it is difficult to do anything with as
an older animal.
We never
stop being loving to the kitten and we
never hit it - but if the kitten bites
we do not pull our hand away (they often
seem to want to bite human hands) but we
grab the kitten by the neck and then
gently keep pushing the hand or fingers
it has begun to bite into the mouth so
that the animal is gagging.
What you
are doing is making an association in
the mind of the animal with its biting
actions and something very unpleasant
and (in its mind) possibly life
threatening. It is important to overcome
this because biting and scratching by
animals can be life threatening for
young children and older people.
Scratching, has often come about because
the animal has been mistreated. It is
very important to train your children
into understanding that they are to be
gentle with animals. When we saw one of
the children being hard on our cats, we
immediately came over and gently prised
the little fingers out of the fur and
opened up the hand and showed the child
how to gently stroke the animal -
telling them to 'Be Gentle' with it.
Using the word 'gentle' and using the
animals name, the word seems to calming
in itself and this way animal realizes
that it's safety is important to you and
the child is being taught respect, even
for the lower creatures.
The animal
begins to feel respected and safer and
therefore learns, most often to keep
away from grabbing fingers without
exhibiting fear. While the child learns
that animals must be cared for, often
they then grow up to be animal lovers.
All it
takes is a little thought - and a caring
attitude and there is harmony at all
levels.
About the
Author
Farmer,
animal lover, writer, christian. Someone
who loves to try and fix the stressful
things about life.